Start out complimenting
Start out complimenting the organization or persons about whom you are complaining. You chose
them for your care because you thought or had heard that their care would be good. Repeat this pre-
vious assumption. This helps to establish the fact that you are not mad at the world and began with
an open mind. This also indicates that if this problem can be resolved, you will continue to have a
high opinion of their service.
Describe in detail the situation that occurred
The more detail you can provide, the more seriously your complaint will be taken. Detail also helps
hospital personnel reconstruct the chain of events that resulted in your negative experience. Try to
stick with the facts without ascribing motives to people's actions.
Express disappointment
What happened did not meet your expectations. Explain the gap between what you thought would
happen and what actually occurred. Any anger, frustration, sadness or disappointment you felt
should be explained here.
Offer a resolution
Often the thing that will make you feel the best is just to have someone say that they are sorry you
did not have a good experience. If that is the case, ask for an apology. If you feel that specific ac-
tions need to be taken, list them. For example, if you feel your privacy was not respected, state that
and ask for an apology and promise to provide better privacy in the future. If you felt you did not
receive an adequate explanation of your care, ask for an apology and a promise of more detailed
information in the future. Generally, those responding to your complaint will appreciate a reason-
able suggestion through which the situation can be resolved.
If your letter goes unanswered, you can either call or write another letter. My preference is
to telephone. Depending on the response to your call, you may choose one of several op-
tions. Send a letter to the Chairman of the Board of Directors indicating that you have sent a
previous, unanswered letter. This almost always elicits a prompt response.
If you have done the above and still cannot get resolution, you can write to the state agen-
cies that license doctors, nurses, hospitals, and health plans. Often different agencies over-
see each of these caregiver groups. They will almost always require a written complaint.
If all of the above has not resolved your concern, and you feel that you have been signifi-
cantly harmed by what happened, you should consider a consultation with a lawyer.
Identifying differences in hospital quality is difficult for patients. There are several sources
of information that you can use to know more about your hospital. Knowing someone who
works in the medical area remains the best way to know which hospital provides the best
service in your area.
Dr. Nathan is a neonatal pediatrician with over 25 years of experience in caring for sick infants
and children and has been selected as one of the top pediatric specialists in the Twin Cities area