self-betterment.
6
As individuals went to these meetings more often, they naturally
came to meet others who they wanted to deepen their relationship. In this way, the
Ming dynasty’s intellectual culture helped to fuel the passion the literati had for
friendship.
Further, the increasingly commercial Ming economy allowed for increased
opportunities for social mobility, resulting in a China that was less hierarchical
than the China of the past. This resulted in a society that was supportive of
friendship between individuals of differing social classes.
7
Within the wulun 五
倫–the five cardinal human relationships in Confucianism–friendship was widely
considered to be the least important. This placed the relationship between friends
beneath those between father and son, ruler and minister, husband and wife, and
older and younger brother. Unlike the four other relationships in the wulun,
friendship is the only bond that is actively chosen by the participant in the
relationship. Friendship is also notably the least hierarchical.
8
Because of
friendship’s comparatively egalitarian nature, those who lived in the less
hierarchical Ming China naturally gravitated toward it.
Ultimately, the quality of Ming China that made it a time in Chinese
history when friendship flourished was not that the people who lived during the
time period were particularly friendly. Instead, because of the fiery intellectual
discussions regarding friendship and the willingness of Ming literati to take
8
Norman Kutcher, “The Fifth Relationship: Dangerous Friendships in the Confucian Context,”
The American Historical Review 105, no. 5 (2000): 1615.
7
Ana Carolina Hosne, “Friendship among Literati. Matteo Ricci SJ (1552–1610) in Late Ming
China,” The Journal of Transcultural Studies 5, no. 1 (July 1, 2014): 191.
6
Miaofen Lü, “Practice as Knowledge: Yang-Ming Learning and Chiang-Hui in
Sixteenth-Century China” (PhD diss., University of California, Los Angeles, 1997), 119.