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friends who are often little more than one-dimensional types” (p. 83). Exactly the reason a reader might
engage in “individual complaint” that so much of the book tries to string together a story about friend-
ship from excerpts with various Hebrew roots (rea [‘friend/neighbor/co-religionist’]), dbq [‘clinging’],
aheb [‘love’], bth [‘trust’], haber [’friend/companion’], nefesh [‘self’]) that appear with very little con-
text from a compendium of books drafted over millennia with uncertain meanings. It probably would
have been better to collate some of the core passages that recur throughout the book, and furnish for
the reader better context and more exegetical approaches to the literary analysis, with more attention
to hierarchy among the sources.
There is also the matter that we are told that some usages get ltered out as irrelevant to the dataset
(a very useful and impressively thorough “Index of Passages” appears at the end of the book). But very
little explanation is offered for what principle could possibly be used for excluding textual data, given
that it is hard to have any priors about the social meaning of friendship for biblical authors nor much
condence that the words are being used consistently across time. It is the purpose of the study, after
all, to bear witness to what the Hebrew Bible is telling us, not to impose a presentist bias about, say,
the separate spheres of sex and friendship, or business and friendship. The dbq root, for example, is
used in connection with Adam and Eve’s sexual union (Genesis 2:24) and Shechem’s lust for Dinah
(Genesis 34:3), so its centrality to claims about biblical sex-free “friendship” requires more rigor and
elaboration.
And then, nally, one more methodological issue: Just what the text is supposed to be data for is not
fully clear. Sometimes it feels like a book about a book: textual analysis and literary criticism. At other
times, however, it feels like a book about a time period, about real people and their real friendships—
about how they lived and felt. When Olyan worries about veering into “speculation” (pp. 36–37) about
“biblical society” (p. 115), one gets the sense that he is trying to tell us something about the real world
during biblical times. But so much of the concordance-style method feels more rooted in and more appro-
priate to a text than to real people. And it is not clear why the historian would not be doing a lot more
with friendship in Gilgamesh, which barely appears in the book. That leaves me thinking that the book
could be better framed as a Talmudic effort for how Jews should be friends, in light of biblical sources.
There are, nevertheless, some pretty interesting ndings to come out of this study. Along with rela-
tively commonplace observations that friends are generally loyal to one other, value reciprocity, take
delight in one another, should not be estranged or distant from one another, and experience emotional
attachment to one another (pp. 90–91), Olyan develops from the text of the Hebrew Bible some dis-
tinctive characteristics of friendship. For example, although biblical sources expect people to formally
mourn only a particular circle of intimate family member deaths and ultimately be buried near them,
friends have a unique role in comforting mourners (pp. 22, 34). Family members also generally have
the resources for reconciliation after substantial conict, but Olyan teaches that there are no good
examples of meaningful reconciliation after a friendship ruptures (pp. 49–50).
He also teaches that although family and friends seem like separate spheres for biblical authors
(there is the awkwardness that Samuel describes the connection of souls between David and Jonathan
in the very same terms used of Jacob and Joseph’s souls by the author of Genesis— and these are the
only appearances of this kind of intimate connection [kesher] in the whole Hebrew Bible [p. 71]),
friends are capable of entering formal strategic treaties and alliances (brit) without derogating from real
friendship (p. 76). This is a mixing of types that looks a little different from more modern Aristotelian
inheritances, in which friendship types are less hybridized.
Moreover, female friendship is celebrated (p. 85), which we do not always hear about in the
Western literature of friendship (though there is some evidence of less formality in friendship among
women [p. 112]). And although people can be real friends when they have different social statuses,
there is almost always equity in behavioral expectations among friends in the Hebrew Bible (pp.
73–74, 86, 113).
There are also insights here about friendship’s relationship to society more generally. Although
shame and denunciation routinely befall failing friends (pp. 52–53), having loyal friends is rarely
part of boilerplate blessings in the Hebrew Bible—and losing them is rarely part of boilerplate curses
therein (p. 56). Still, social decline more generally is often characterized by the loss of bonds of inti-