Journal of Moral Theology, Vol. 10. No. 1 (2021): 158–175
Jesus Is Not Just My Homeboy:
A Friendship Christology
Justin Bronson Barringer
T ONE POINT WHEN IT was kind of trendy, I often wore a hat
that said, “Jesus is My Homeboy.” I honestly miss that hat.
For years, because of the depleted state of both the concept
and realities of friendship in the church, I did not have lan-
guage to talk about the way I believed that Jesus liked me and did not
just love me in some vague, general, disinterested, sense. At the time,
the best I could do was use the language of my hat to talk about him
as my homeboy. Now, thankfully, I have discovered the rich tradition
in the church of talking about friendship with and among the Triune
God. What I have yet to see is an attempt to talk about standard topics
within Christology as they relate to such friendship. It is my intent,
then, to attempt to bring the classical conversations on friendship into
the service of themes in Christology including the incarnation, life,
death, and resurrection of Jesus, as well as his eternal place in the Trin-
ity, and his ascension and anticipated return in the Parousia.
The essay has four primary sections. The first addresses the possi-
bility of naming Jesus as the megalopsychos envisioned by Aristotle,
as a way of asserting that this would make him the one with whom all
humanity should want to be friends. I explore how the kenotic act of
Jesus described in Philippians 2 might open up the possibility for de-
scribing Jesus as the truest version of the megalopsychos precisely be-
cause he took on the form of the mikropsychos. The second section,
builds on the first by exploring how this great friend Jesus creates a
new form of civic life that centers around friendship, and how this new
civic community is exemplified in Jesus when he is named “friend of
sinners.” The third section explores how Jesus as the second person of
the Trinity, one in Trinitarian friendship, can open up ways for us to
understand friends as other selves. The fourth section asserts that Jesus
has invited all of us into friendship through declaring the disciples as
his friends. In the conclusion, I revisit each of these themes by ground-
ing them in biblical stories about Jesus’s interactions with two of his
friends, Judas who betrayed him and Peter who denied him, in hopes
of solidifying friendship as among the central concepts that makes
Christianity intelligible and thus one of the most appropriate ways to
talk about Jesus and the various doctrines in Christology.